This book was a 'must-read' for me on my journey toward becoming polyamourous. Some may say it's selfish, impractical, hedonistic - and at times, i guess it certainly can feel like that. But at it's heart, it's because I have a big heart, and so much love to give of different kinds. My belief in the human spirit to love infinitely is strong - and this book gives a true and real insight into how it can be done at its best! :) Highly recommended.